hey what's up?? welcome to the world of blogging!! And about the post....well i don't think so...once in love..you can never get back to friends again!! no matter how ruthlessly you may choose to deny it!!
Nicely put rocko...one can ponder some more over it....i am somewhat in favor of what you have just said but then again there can be another possibility "Platonic love"-IT is very much a part of any close friendship. But such a love doesn't always stay platonic. Crossing that line, between friendship and love, can be both beautiful and extremely difficult!
it can be beautiful only when the feelings are mutual! if it's one sided... it can be painful as hell! Nothing hurts more than your best friend not being yours anymore!! It's a distance which creeps in and on the other hand you cannot do anything about it!! been a victim!
anyways...why don't u put some blog links in your blog...hehe hope u get the idea.lol would add to publicity!
Maverick is back in all his element...voila....I am impressed by maverickz thoughts...Hez overdone himself this time and wrote a long note on my question to further ponder upon...but then as he says monday mornin ....;p Nicely written lad...;) and till now it stays as a topic...a big ? friendship...love....love friendship......2 philosophical and one can even say rather complex....phew....!
Aman....Recipe esp to wake up Aman : 2 shots vodka 1 shot lime
Shake and serve with lots of ice in a highball glass....Please do exactly as directed for the best cure...ahem...applause! I wrote it on ur blog too in case u lose it...!hehe
I met a guy about three weeks ago through an online meetup site. He contacted me and we exchanged pictures (I gave him over 5 to look at) and after a few days, I gave him my number to give me a call...He called me a few times and each time it was very natural and easy. On top of these phone calls, we were emailing back and forth everyday. We were getting along swimmingly.
Then, one week ago, we had our first "Date". My first instinct on the experience was that it was fun. There were a few flirtatious slights of hand, definite eye contact, teasing, etc. He gave me huge hugs both when I arrived and left and even texted me after the date was over that night.
My thoughts now is that he was just drunk and really wasn't that into me. Although we've kept emailing this week, it's only because I initiate it. He called me once on Friday for a few minutes, but that has been all. To add to this, I tried to make plans with him for the weekend and he said he was interested but then never got back to me. Later he gave me a valid excuse, but admitted that he should of texted or called to let me know he wasn't available...
I just don't want to waste any more time. I really liked him and I thought he liked me as well. Even though he didn't initiate emails after the date, he definitely didn't make it an effort to stop communicating. I don't know if he wants to be just friends or what...
If anyone out there, especially guys, has any input, I'd really appreciate it.
ahhh nav r u both the question anonymous and da answer as well eh???...hmmmmm.........wht da hell is goin on....made my blog an advice column or whatttt???
who are u anonymous dame?????...whats up wit da net dude???hmmm fishy fishy...nehow don know if net gigs really do work well neway but i would like to know who u r and how'd get 2 my blog to answer ur question or navv can b more helpful even aman.....ahhh 4get it...lol
a nice question to comment on well i say its nt impossible to turn the lov cycle bak to the frends cycle but sometimes it can prove unhealthy for future so i say its better to leave it as it is and move on in life .... as for frendship even if frendship is there it has its own restrictions n all its nothin like b4... trust me on tht i m tellin thru my personal exp.........
Wat should i say? I would love to read a blog of urs on this topic "One Strange Thing and One Strange Person !!" Sounds Abstract ...Rite?? Let's C if u could do it .....
And this one is for ur topic ....hmmmm lemme think nt 4 ur topic lemme make it general
"Love and Friendship"
Love is the most difficult thing 2 b defind why ????? coz ....is simple... everything in this world is relative ...... What is sufficient 4 1 may not b 4 other.... Rite ?
It depends upon one's personl exp.... u may say love is dis love is dat.... blah blah....nd someone will com nd say love wat's dat !!
bt in the end love is a feeling rite.... just a feelin....Nw how can u define a feelng.....Exp it just u got to feel it !!!
Now to ur topic Love can't turn into frienship ever...... Surpised ???
Coz wat i think is dey go hand in hand.... Love cant survive w/o friendship and friendship can't do so w/o Love !!!
That is true anonymous but wht i asked was can it go back 2 frenship.?!..if u feel as u say, so strongly for a person....more than just normal ha ha hee hee pals....with ur heart..not ur brain...like be so stupidly intimidated by him/her that you are willing to be lost in the fairytale forever....you are so much in awe of the other person ,shared moments of laughter,beautiful thoughts and the rest that you just can't share with everybody...you feel a connection which then suddenly snaps due to unavoidable reasons ...well think on it for a while...would you now be willing to share just a casual friendship or would be a little annoyed,mixed emotions etc and not be willing to be friends again coz it wouldn't be the same and you don't want jus that much..you want the past you shared back then..you can't settle for less now..its either love and be together forever or nothing at all...you see people in love ...actually in love and not jus experiencing a temporary feeling and cannot do as you say..they cannot hurt themselves or let their emotions be played with...feelings form a human being..."feelings maketh a person....they are the very person"!.....if you find your soulmate that you just cannot do without...and he/she feelz the same way....but suddenly it just snaps coz it can't go on but they have a connection there...you can't be cliche'd"just pals" anymore...that my dear anonymous is a different kind of feeling and relation altogether....it varies from your outlook and from mine...i've tried my best in whatever time i have to reply to your comment as it has triggered my cells and kind of caught my attention ....next time sign up under thy name even if you prefer anonymity...would be appreciated...merci..and the next time i'd try to oblidge you as well by posting my coming post if at all... under your specified title...!until then..peace n ponder over the thought as we say... P.S.=-sorry for grammatical,punctuation and all the errors permitted in the english language...lol!i'm too beat even to see proper rite now!;)
First thing u r forgiven for ur grammatical,punctuation and all the errors permitted in the english language :) but why did u apologised ?? they r allowed rite atleast in blogging...
I know u may not be having ny reason to believe me but u know something even before i wrote my previous comment i knew that ur reply will be somewhat similar to wat u just mentioned......
cool for the time being i agree wid u bt u cant disagree wid me.... reason is simple ur perspective nd mine is different.....
I m waiting for ur next blog bt try to make it real life..... nt something dat one imagines nd put in words.... real life means someone u could have met somewhere ... needless to mention i know :)
Last thing "Anonymous".. Can't be left like this hai na....but believe me i dont have anyother options..... i may give u my blogger link but for now just wait .... nd i m waitin for ur blog !!!
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hey what's up?? welcome to the world of blogging!!
And about the post....well i don't think so...once in love..you can never get back to friends again!!
no matter how ruthlessly you may choose to deny it!!
Nicely put rocko...one can ponder some more over it....i am somewhat in favor of what you have just said but then again there can be another possibility "Platonic love"-IT is very much a part of any close friendship. But such a love doesn't always stay platonic. Crossing that line, between friendship and love, can be both beautiful and extremely difficult!
it can be beautiful only when the feelings are mutual!
if it's one sided... it can be painful as hell!
Nothing hurts more than your best friend not being yours anymore!!
It's a distance which creeps in and on the other hand you cannot do anything about it!!
been a victim!
anyways...why don't u put some blog links in your blog...hehe hope u get the idea.lol
would add to publicity!
Yep Hail to dat gal....;p !Nicely put shreya...welcome aboard!Muah...
Ah ha....nice rocko...ur deep eh...! Yea sure will...just as soon as i figure out how...me n vrinn have a deal there...;-)
Will make a deal wit u 2 rocko...lol...;p
Maverick is back in all his element...voila....I am impressed by maverickz thoughts...Hez overdone himself this time and wrote a long note on my question to further ponder upon...but then as he says monday mornin ....;p
Nicely written lad...;) and till now it stays as a topic...a big ? friendship...love....love friendship......2 philosophical and one can even say rather complex....phew....!
click the edit me button on right..it will guide ya!! and ya..ready for the deal. lol
Yawn!
Aman...stop sleepin on my blog ...its such an intriguing question boy...!~
Rite back at ya vishal...nice...good luck mate if u want to that is....read the above for further help on making your decision....;)
ZZZZZZZZZZ, what , u said somethin?
Aman....Recipe esp to wake up Aman :
2 shots vodka
1 shot lime
Shake and serve with lots of ice in a highball glass....Please do exactly as directed for the best cure...ahem...applause!
I wrote it on ur blog too in case u lose it...!hehe
ZZZZZ(Rubbing eyesand still trying to wake up ), did any one mention monday? ...Is it the next week?
aman ...wakey wakey....mon comes every week...in case u didn't know that....enlightened lad...?!;)
thanx 4 da info rocko...we'll make a deal soon ...;)
manic monday....reminds me of da song by bangles vrinn....!;)
I'm totally confused...
I met a guy about three weeks ago through an online meetup site. He contacted me and we exchanged pictures (I gave him over 5 to look at) and after a few days, I gave him my number to give me a call...He called me a few times and each time it was very natural and easy. On top of these phone calls, we were emailing back and forth everyday. We were getting along swimmingly.
Then, one week ago, we had our first "Date". My first instinct on the experience was that it was fun. There were a few flirtatious slights of hand, definite eye contact, teasing, etc. He gave me huge hugs both when I arrived and left and even texted me after the date was over that night.
My thoughts now is that he was just drunk and really wasn't that into me. Although we've kept emailing this week, it's only because I initiate it. He called me once on Friday for a few minutes, but that has been all. To add to this, I tried to make plans with him for the weekend and he said he was interested but then never got back to me. Later he gave me a valid excuse, but admitted that he should of texted or called to let me know he wasn't available...
I just don't want to waste any more time. I really liked him and I thought he liked me as well. Even though he didn't initiate emails after the date, he definitely didn't make it an effort to stop communicating. I don't know if he wants to be just friends or what...
If anyone out there, especially guys, has any input, I'd really appreciate it.
forget him, i'm available :P
(you asked for advice from a guy, right ? ;) )
ahhh nav r u both the question anonymous and da answer as well eh???...hmmmmm.........wht da hell is goin on....made my blog an advice column or whatttt???
who are u anonymous dame?????...whats up wit da net dude???hmmm fishy fishy...nehow don know if net gigs really do work well neway but i would like to know who u r and how'd get 2 my blog to answer ur question or navv can b more helpful even aman.....ahhh 4get it...lol
Lady stop all dis here will u please.....thank u and gud bye...sorry about ur story...!!!
nice work!;)
a nice question to comment on well i say its nt impossible to turn the lov cycle bak to the frends cycle but sometimes it can prove unhealthy for future so i say its better to leave it as it is and move on in life .... as for frendship even if frendship is there it has its own restrictions n all its nothin like b4... trust me on tht i m tellin thru my personal exp.........
rite on whoeva u r dude !hail!
nope....i shud knw....
Thanx 4 da comment alankrita...yea ur rite gal in a way....
Sim u jus put ur pic here rite....lookin gorgeous in it babe....killing!
Wat should i say? I would love to read a blog of urs on this topic "One Strange Thing and One Strange Person !!" Sounds Abstract ...Rite?? Let's C if u could do it .....
ha yea mayb later whoeva this is...sure ill give it a shot...by da way--y not sign up unda ur name?!
There r reasons for almost everything we do.....
There ought to b 1...
Just do it first.....Let's make it a bit easy --> how bout giving a title ??
"The most strange thing about her/him was his silence !!"
Anonymity some times is better than names ........
There r reasons for almost everything we do.....
There ought to b 1 4 dis too...
Just do it first.....
Let's make ur job a bit easy --> how bout giving a title ??
"The most strange thing about him/her was his/her silence !!"
Best of luck !!!
And this one is for ur topic ....hmmmm lemme think nt 4 ur topic lemme make it general
"Love and Friendship"
Love is the most difficult thing 2 b defind why ????? coz ....is simple... everything in this world is relative ...... What is sufficient 4 1 may not b 4 other.... Rite ?
It depends upon one's personl exp.... u may say love is dis love is dat.... blah blah....nd someone will com nd say love wat's dat !!
bt in the end love is a feeling rite.... just a feelin....Nw how can u define a feelng.....Exp it just u got to feel it !!!
Now to ur topic Love can't turn into frienship ever...... Surpised ???
Coz wat i think is dey go hand in hand.... Love cant survive w/o friendship and friendship can't do so w/o Love !!!
Think on dis ......
Signed
Anonymous :)
That is true anonymous but wht i asked was can it go back 2 frenship.?!..if u feel as u say, so strongly for a person....more than just normal ha ha hee hee pals....with ur heart..not ur brain...like be so stupidly intimidated by him/her that you are willing to be lost in the fairytale forever....you are so much in awe of the other person ,shared moments of laughter,beautiful thoughts and the rest that you just can't share with everybody...you feel a connection which then suddenly snaps due to unavoidable reasons ...well think on it for a while...would you now be willing to share just a casual friendship or would be a little annoyed,mixed emotions etc and not be willing to be friends again coz it wouldn't be the same and you don't want jus that much..you want the past you shared back then..you can't settle for less now..its either love and be together forever or nothing at all...you see people in love ...actually in love and not jus experiencing a temporary feeling and cannot do as you say..they cannot hurt themselves or let their emotions be played with...feelings form a human being..."feelings maketh a person....they are the very person"!.....if you find your soulmate that you just cannot do without...and he/she feelz the same way....but suddenly it just snaps coz it can't go on but they have a connection there...you can't be cliche'd"just pals" anymore...that my dear anonymous is a different kind of feeling and relation altogether....it varies from your outlook and from mine...i've tried my best in whatever time i have to reply to your comment as it has triggered my cells and kind of caught my attention ....next time sign up under thy name even if you prefer anonymity...would be appreciated...merci..and the next time i'd try to oblidge you as well by posting my coming post if at all... under your specified title...!until then..peace n ponder over the thought as we say...
P.S.=-sorry for grammatical,punctuation and all the errors permitted in the english language...lol!i'm too beat even to see proper rite now!;)
First thing u r forgiven for ur grammatical,punctuation and all the errors permitted in the english language :) but why did u apologised ?? they r allowed rite atleast in blogging...
I know u may not be having ny reason to believe me but u know something even before i wrote my previous comment i knew that ur reply will be somewhat similar to wat u just mentioned......
cool for the time being i agree wid u bt u cant disagree wid me.... reason is simple ur perspective nd mine is different.....
I m waiting for ur next blog bt try to make it real life..... nt something dat one imagines nd put in words.... real life means someone u could have met somewhere ... needless to mention i know :)
Last thing "Anonymous".. Can't be left like this hai na....but believe me i dont have anyother options.....
i may give u my blogger link but for now just wait .... nd i m waitin for ur blog !!!
Signed
Anonymous !! :)
whoa whoa whoa lady did u get carried.... away.
"Love is like a dream it doesn'aut last for ever"
While friendship is a plant of slow growth the more time you spend the more you get attached.
Anonymous ;-)
yea rite sure..over n out..bored of this topic lol!enjoy...love..frenship..whteva...! hav fun! live life! tatz al! tc~ whoseoeva u r!
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